clearing

today, i needed to plant things.

i planted some mums and some pansies.
i put a cement rabbit in the little bed in front of the living room window. i put a frog planter next to the front stoop. i put a little purple aster in the frog planter.
i raked leaves and swept the front walk and driveway.

i hung a witch ball in the front window.

tomorrow i bury dad’s ashes and then i plan to thoroughly clean the house. i will sweep out the dust and negativity and sprinkle salt across the threshold and then clear the space with sage and drumming.

i hope to have a clear, sparkling house by saturday so that i can go to the memorial service with a clear mind and a clean slate (so to speak).

when all is done, i may take a long, hot, hot, very hot bath with salt and lavender to wash away the rest.

7 responses to “clearing”

  1. ossobucco Avatar
    ossobucco

    Is there something symbolic I can do from afar?
    For I am very much with you, my friend.

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    1. lsaboe Avatar
      lsaboe

      thanks — i appreciate knowing you are there. just good thoughts to send dad off and help me keep my feet on the ground.

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      1. ossobucco Avatar
        ossobucco

        You have them. Always.

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  2. jezebellydancer Avatar
    jezebellydancer

    This sounds like a very productive way to deal with all that you are going thru.
    I’ll keep sending comforting thoughts to you.

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  3. nimitzbrood Avatar
    nimitzbrood

    Well wishes from a passing stranger…
    May your broom sweep clean the negative
    and blend smooth the scars of sadness
    to faded accents of sweeter times.

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  4. earlofgrey Avatar
    earlofgrey

    I hope that you’re ok, love.

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    1. lsaboe Avatar
      lsaboe

      oyes, i’m fine. just walking through fog for a bit. dad’s memorial is this morning and i’m sipping enough coffee to face showering and dressing and doing a few fussy things to make way for the family afterwards.
      i’m sure by tomorrow the fog will be lifting.

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